Do the universal laws play a part in business?

By Tui Cordemans

A few months ago, I overheard two entrepreneurs discussing holidays. One of them said to the other, “Didn’t you just have a holiday, you always seem to be on holiday. I can’t remember when I was last on holiday.” The other one responded by saying, “That is why you are more successful than me, mate.”

I couldn't help but intervene. I laughed and asked, 'Isn't having a life where you always feel as if you are on holiday a sign of great success?”  They both stared at me and then laughed as if to say 'good point'… it made complete sense to me! 

We live in a world where we are constantly busy, where we are bombarded with ideas of what represents a successful life. There seems to be a stigma attached to the notion that if you own more things, do more stuff (busy), make more money and be more of yourself,  you will be happier. Says who? 

I read that rather than constantly chasing something like success, we should just allow ourselves ‘to be’ and to go with the flow, in tune with nature. Is that even possible when you own a business?

As business owners, most of us would struggle with this concept. In fact, of all the people on the planet, we are the people who need it the most. The need to control everything often leaves us totally stressed. Our left brain thinks that we can control our destiny; the concept that the universe is actually guiding and protecting us seems impossible - bah! What universe? 

Entrepreneurs and business owners are rushing, pushing, pulling, chasing, controlling, and stressing to reach a never-ending goal, often at the cost of their physical, mental and spiritual health. We may even become alienated from family and friends. We are often not living by our highest values.  These are some of the concerns that Entrepreneurs’ Organization endeavours to help its members through its various programs, such as the Forum.

Being grateful for what you have achieved and enjoying the journey of life is really important. The best thing about this strategy is “The more you are grateful for what you have, the more you will get of that for which you are grateful for.” To me, this implies that being mindful and grateful will bring us more 'success' (or the feeling of it) than being constantly stressed and feeling as if we are not good enough.

Recently, I have been working on connecting with the universe. This involves sitting every night at my shrine and offering gratitude for everything that ‘is.’ I acknowledge that I am not alone - that no matter what risk I take or decision I make, the universe has my back, and is guiding me. Letting go of fear and the need to control dissolves the stress. Rather than becoming frazzled thinking we have all the answers, we can trust in the universe to guide us (or God, Buddha or whoever your guide might be).

I am practising letting go and accepting what ‘is’ - connecting to my life and business vision. I am working on enjoying the journey of life, rather than waiting for something to be achieved. This way, when I do work, I am working on things I feel inspired about, things that help me live my vision right now.

By embracing hope and faith, one can live a peaceful life. Constantly setting goals creates a mindset that you must achieve something to feel fulfilled. The key is to gently hold onto your goals, and visions and to surrender them to the universe. You know you have surrendered when you trust in the wisdom of the universe.

What is your life vision? What is your idea of success? Do you know what your values are and are you aligned to them? Are you feeling happy, relaxed and inspired every day? Do you have fun? Are you leading from a place of love or fear?

I encourage every business owner and entrepreneur to take a day out to just sit and visualise what your ideal life would look like. How would you feel? How would you behave, and who would you have around you? I believe that we all want the same thing, we all want the feeling of love in our lives. If we are not feeling this right now, then surely this should be the priority? When we have the feeling of love around us, everything else just seems to fall into place. 

About the author: Tui Cordemans is the Co-founder and Creative Director of Koh Living. She is also a member of EO Melbourne.

Bring out your inner warrior to confront an uncertain 2021

By Tui Cordemans

Instagram posts are full of inspiring optimism for 2021. We just couldn’t wait for 2020 to end and for 2021 to start. It is as if something magical happens when one year turns into another. Hence, we make New Year’s resolutions. But why do we have to wait for a New Year?  I don’t know about you, but I have never had a New Year’s resolution come to fruition unless I have worked hard at making it happen. Things do not magically transpire just because one year turns into another.

When I ponder over the concept of uncertainty and how uncertain we are feeling about next year, I realise that in reality, the future is never certain - so why do we worry about it now? If you reminisce about your years as an adolescent or young adult, you will probably admit that you never thought about the future, let alone whether it was certain or uncertain. One merely lived in the moment. I practice yoga regularly, and when I am doing my yoga poses, I consciously bring myself back to the present moment; when I achieve that moment, I feel much stronger in my poses.  If professional athletes took their minds off the present moment, they could compromise their balance and the game.

Life is always uncertain, but now it seems to be more so.  Who would have ever thought that a government would shut businesses down in a blink of an eye? This possibility is what is causing the most uncertainty. Does this uncertainty have an end?  Happily, we can prepare for this possibility and have our businesses ready to navigate a crisis. Remember, a business should always be crisis-proofed – prepared for the unexpected.

Warrior strategies to help you thrive in 2021

Focus on the present moment

As leaders, we must have goals and a clear picture of our future. But, the truth is that there is nothing more real than the NOW. You can save your ideal future for a visualisation exercise.  However, when you are in business, living in the present moment is when you will be most powerful.  What is more, just watch how your stress levels drop. When you are with your customers, be present with them. The more you know your customers, the more you will be able to satisfy their needs. When you give your customers what they want, you will become important to them and they will remember you when there is a crisis.

Be a creative and perceptive warrior

There were times during the pandemic when I felt I was slipping into victimhood – why did I not do more? Chastising oneself is not the way of a warrior; neither is pitying oneself an effective way of dealing with a crisis.  In November, I had a couple of bad days, so I took some time out to analyse the year and what had led to this state of affairs; what part had I played?

I visualised a Viking riding a magnificent horse and leading his people into battle. What were the stellar qualities that made him a strong leader?

The qualities I imagined a warrior would need to get through a crisis were: focus, strength (good health), caring for the needs of others (your customers/staff), standing up for their beliefs (purpose), foresight (strategy), faith and determination. Warriors have a purpose and a belief. They are courageous and they instil in their followers a winning spirit. They do not wallow in pity or expect others to make them feel better; they push forward, leading the way through adversity.

We can adapt the qualities of a warrior to our respective circumstances. Using our creativity, we can navigate our way through the crisis. Now, imagine yourself as a creative warrior on a horse and work out which qualities you need to get yourself and your people through a crisis.

Buckle Up

This year, I discovered that we could not always predict where our money was going to come from, but we could predict what we will spend. Last week, I admitted to my 80-year-old neighbour that my generation had been spoiled, and she agreed. She went on to say that as a child, she only owned one pair of shoes and that during the war and the recession, her mum had tightened her belt and kept expenses to an absolute minimum. In other words, business owners need to buckle up!

Know your purpose

In the same way that a warrior in battle is clear about his purpose and why he will win, we need to be just as clear as to why we are in business and why our business will excel. When our goal is infinite, we do not need to worry about finite goals not being reached. It is about believing in something bigger than ourselves. At Koh Living, our purpose is to make people feel important and loved through the creation of unique art-inspired gifts. What big goal are you working towards that will have an impact on this world or the people in it? Is it infinite and are your staff connected to this big vision?

During an EO APAC meeting this year, I realised that one’s purpose can begin in one’s own backyard. Do not be deterred by bigger businesses that devote part of their profit to grandiose philanthropic activities. What you can achieve is relative to the size of your business. As you grow, you can do more; the more people you impact, the more it will benefit you and your business.

 "Never let a good crisis go to waste."

- Winston Churchill

Learn the lessons – what will you stop doing, what will you start doing, what will you keep doing?

Many people have noted how weird or difficult 2020 has been, and we agree. However, our generation has had a fairly easy ride. Past generations have suffered more. But suffering can be beneficial as it can make us more empathetic, stronger and resilient. Successfully navigating a crisis can prepare us for confronting the next crisis.

Winston Churchill always said, never waste a crisis – this will mean something different for each person. For myself, suffering is only beneficial if I am open to the message it is sending. What is that one lesson I have to learn?

When we failed to reach our finite goals in 2020, I was hard on myself - until I realised that what mattered was our infinite goal. I also realised that it’s not even about the goal, it’s about reflecting on the journey. If it’s about the journey, then I need to understand that journeys will always have ups and downs. I then asked myself, “What had I done over the last few years that was stifling our growth?” At that point, I knew what it was that I needed to STOP doing and what I needed to START doing. This gave me 3 strategies for 2021 that I could use to feel confident in navigating an uncertain environment.

As business owners, we are often too ‘busy’ to stop, slow down, reflect, (be receptive) or meditate. This is usually to the detriment of our business and our personal lives. We should always start our days in meditation, reflection and visualisation to ‘create’ the environment in our minds that will allow us to live our most purposeful, authentic and sovereign lives.

How have your market and your customers changed?

To keep your business going forward, you have to understand what your customers need - this is not something new. However, during a crisis, people’s needs change temporarily and it is important to understand what these changes are so you can give your customers solutions. People are creatures of habit, and their basic needs will not change. After the great wars, people eventually returned to their previous way of life, but initially, they tightened their belts and their spending. So, adapting your prices according to customers’ ability to spend would be something to take into account. People’s shopping habits were already changing before the pandemic, but now, this change has shot forward by at least 5 years.

There is a multitude of strategies you can implement during a crisis, and I have chosen some of the most useful. Crucial to success is creating the right state of mind. From a holistic perspective, it’s important to have a healthy mind and body to keep 10 steps ahead. It is often hard to keep up with our personal or work routines when a crisis strikes, but this is exactly what we need to do. Routine in a baby’s life ensures stability for both mom and baby; routine keeps things ticking along nicely and this is no different to anything else in life. When life is rocky, we need that stability. Routine and discipline support us along our path of purpose, towards our infinite goal. Applying the lessons we have learnt will make that journey even more stable.

About the author: Tui Cordemans is the Co-founder and Creative Director of Koh Living. She is also a member of EO Melbourne.

Music Makes Better Entrepreneurs

Entrepreneurs live busy lives as it is, which are often filled with stress and pressure from various angles. With the challenges that the current crisis brings and the uncertainty that the future beholds, they need more than ever to turn to methods and solutions that can contribute to their mental health. Music is one tool that brings energy to a lethargic mind and respite to a weary soul.

Let’s see how busy entrepreneurs use music as they go through the rigours of their journeys.

“Music has a significant effect on my mood and my emotions.”

– Kym Huynh

WeTeachMe Founder Kym Huynh finds music as an integral part of the human experience. “I use it to lift my mood and comfort, boost general happiness, and reduce anxiety. For me, music is an easy – and powerful – way to transform how I feel and, consequently, how I think.”

Kym, former President at EO Melbourne, also talked about how music has piqued his interest in the human mind.  “I'm particularly curious about how music can influence cognitive function. A tool I use for concentration –  https://brain.fm/ -- creates functional music that is optimised for focus. I find that the frequency of this music shifts me into one of focus and concentration, and the cerebral shift starts from minute 2 onwards.”

“I also listen to 432 Hz frequency music as part of my morning routine that was taught to me by Warren Rustand, called the 10.10.10. Without fail, this frequency of music, combined with the 10.10.10. in my morning routine, prepares me for an exceptional day. As a side benefit, music tuned to 432 Hz is softer and brighter. It is said to provide greater clarity and is easy on the ears,” Kym added.

“Music is good to start your day and end your night.”

– Tui Cordemans

For Tui Cordemans, Director at Koh Living, there is nothing like a hard trance to move your stress levels and get the energy flowing. “As COVID hit, I went back to my 20’s and started running and listening to hardcore trance which stopped any thought patterns and got me ready and pumped for the day.”

She described how she starts her mornings with energy-boosting music. “I have been listening to albums such as trance essential and hard trance anthems. I highly recommend this strategy if you are experiencing any negative thought patterns because the music is so intense and loud that you just have no place for any other thoughts. During stressful times, having an empty mind is potentially the best place to go to have a mental break. In the mornings, it is very easy to start with this music because your mind is not exhausted from the day.”

This is in stark contrast as to how Tui ends her nights, as well as the kind of music she listens to when she caps her day. “On the flip side, when I want to relax at the end of a night, I often enjoy pure silence. I find this extremely relaxing. I became accustomed to this after spending years doing meditation. If I do listen to music at the end of a day, it has to be classical as I find it dissolves my day into pure bliss. Pretty extreme change from my morning music, I know.  My brain is fairly exhausted from the day, so silence or listening to classical music works for me. Something like Swan Lake from Tchaikovsky, The Four Seasons, Vivaldi or even Rigoletto by Pavarotti – all great stress busters!”

“Music has a huge effect on my wellbeing.” 

– John Liston

“I would go as far as to say it’s the single most important thing in my day-to-day life,” said John Liston, Director at Liston Newton Advisory. “I have Spotify on throughout the entire day. I use it for energy and momentum when doing work. I use a good song to celebrate a win during the day or to get my energy back up if it’s been a hard day. I use it when cooking dinner and spending time with the kids to make things more upbeat and fun.”     

Apart from having it at home, music is also part of his work environment. “In the pre-COVID days, we would have a UE Boom in our open-plan office and play music throughout the day. It’s hard to always get everyone to agree on taste, but it’s a great way to generate mood and energy in the office,” John shared.

John’s top three chill songs include: “Give Me Tonight” by Dustin Tebbutt; “Old Pine” by Ben Howard; and “Fading” by Valis Alps.

“Music is core to me as an individual.”

– Dean Cherny

Dean Cherny has been in the music industry for so many years. He is the CEO and Founder of Marketing Melodies and storePlay, as well as Managing Director of DJ Dimension – all of which are related to music. “As you might expect, music plays a massive part in my well-being. It is core to me as an individual and something that compliments almost every part of my life. From training in the morning to hanging out with the kids, I love having a soundtrack to everything I do,” Dean remarked.

He shared an experience he recently had with his family. “Only last weekend, I watched my two daughters grooving and singing along to Donna Summer’s Hot Stuff as we built Lego, and it bought such a smile to my face. These soundtracks also allow me to build a bridge with my kids as I share stories about the artists and my time in the music industry.”

Outside of the home, music still plays an integral part in his entrepreneurial life. “While my company Marketing Melodies primarily focuses on using music to help create ambience in retail spaces, we also realise the importance of using music to stimulate, boost, and motivate the workforce in these environments.”

Dean stated the significance of music in a work environment. “The correct playlists can indeed help boost productivity in shops and offices. More laidback, relaxing music works best for periods of concentration, whilst more upbeat music helps to boost energy levels towards the end of the day.”

And if you’re curious as to what are Dean’s must-listen music, here are his top five ‘chill’ artists and albums:

1. David Gray - White Ladder

2. Massive Attack - Blue Lines

3. Maxwell - Maxwell’s Urban Hand Suite

4. Morcheeba - Big Calm

5. George Benson - Give Me The Night

What is music to you?

Let us know how music has played in your personal and professional journey. Comment below your thoughts or share your favourite songs that have become a significant part of your life.